I was in the shower when this hit me: “Good vibes only” is slowly killing us. Not just physically—but emotionally, mentally, spiritually. As an emotional intelligence coach, I hear this all the time from high-achievers: “I’m focusing on the good.”“I’m grateful, so I don’t want to complain.”“If I just stay positive, things will be fine.” And don’t get me wrong—I’m a big fan of gratitude.I am a positive person.And I do believe in choosing empowering …
In our culture, boys aren’t allowed to be sad and girls aren’t allowed to be angry. I’ve been sitting with this a lot lately—and seeing how it plays out in boardrooms, clubhouses, and even bedtime routines at home. 👉 When boys aren’t allowed to feel sadness, they grow into men who default to silence, sarcasm, or shut down when vulnerable conversations arise. 👉 When girls aren’t allowed to feel anger, they grow into women who …
I thought it would be fun for us to get to know each other a little better. So I’m proposing a game to you. I’m gonna share a little bit about myself, then at the end of this blog, I have a couple questions for you so I can understand more of what makes you tick! (And make sure I provide the utmost value to you in my newsletter and services!) Things That Excite Me: …
When did you stop playing? Probably around the time you had your first child (ironically) or got that promotion with the big salary. If you’re like me, your expanding to-do list and pressure to keep up with all your responsibilities began to take priority. And maybe, like me, you started studying time management and high-performance productivity principals and reasoned that play was not something that helped you achieve your ambitious goals. When we stop playing, …
“Is your life hard, Mom?” my 8-year-old asked, as I huffed around the kitchen cleaning up the 80th round of snack plates since school had been called off for an entire week for the 2nd hurricane in 2 weeks. His comment snapped me right into mindfulness as he unknowingly became the mirror I needed to peer into that day. (Our children and relationships are always a mirror into our next level of self-mastery.) I softened …